Alright, I know that I get annoyed when I talk to a guy online and then we never meet up. Or when they don’t answer me. However, I usually use the approach “oh, he didn’t answer my message. That sucks.” and move on. I’m pretty good at just cutting people off though (minus the Not-Boyfriend, but that’s a whoooooole other talk), so I guess it’s just easier for me than for others.
This one kid messaged me back in July-August, before I moved to Boston. I had already changed my information on the site so that it said I was moving to Boston in the next week. He seemed okay. However, I met my Not-Boyfriend the first week I moved here, and got caught up in that for awhile. When that ended, I was bummed out and deactivated my account for a few weeks. When I added it back, I honestly didn’t even remember this guy when he started messaging me again. Even though I had reactivated my account, I was so not ready to date anyone else. It’s my own fault for leading him on, I know.
BUT SERIOUSLY. It’s been 6 months. We haven’t met yet. We’re not going to. The second I pop online, he messages me. I hardly am on the site anymore (since the Not-Boyfriend is semi in the picture). I only go on to check messages and to see who checked my profile. In and out. This guy will not quit. A few months ago, he bitched me out because I used to talk to him, but didn’t anymore.
I know I should just tell him to give it up. But at this point, why hasn’t he figured it out? I haven’t messaged him back at all in months. Dude, you’re just looking desperate now.